Well the reason I need help getting started is because I feel like I just don't have any time for myself. The reason for that is. I have a 2 1/2 Month year old and I spend most of my time with her. I Am going to try my best though. I want some abs I dont want to be a flaby momma. I just want to be nice and tone for my soon to be husband. If there is anyone who has my problem please tell what you did to help your self get started.